On Creating Without Permission— Read Together July 2026
Read Together · July 2026
On Creating Without Permission
Five books — one picture book, one for teens, two adult reads, and one for the fiction reader — woven around what it means to create freely.
*Originally published July 3, 2026 · Updated July 5, 2026 to include the fiction pick.
July's books came together around a question I keep circling back to: what would I make if I gave myself real permission?
Not permission to be good at it. Not permission to finish it, or share it, or turn it into something. Just permission to begin. To make a mess. To follow a thread because it's interesting, not because it's productive.
We just spent a month asking how we show up for others. This month, I want to ask something quieter and somehow harder: how do we show up for our own creative life? The one we set down years ago, or never quite gave ourselves permission to pick up at all.
These five books approach that question from very different angles — a child discovering that a mistake can become something beautiful, a young writer learning that nothing is created from nothing, a woman who built a life around the courage to keep making things despite her fear, and two design researchers who insist that creative confidence isn't a personality trait — it's a practice. All five left me thinking less about what I want to make, and more about what's been quietly waiting for me to come back to it.
No pressure to finish any of them. No pressure to get it right. Just an open space to read, reflect, and create — together.
The through line thread
Creativity doesn't begin with talent or permission from anyone else. It begins with the willingness to make something imperfect — and the courage to call it beautiful anyway.
That's the thread running through every book this month. Hold onto it.
Picture book · Ages 2–6
Beautiful Oops!
Barney Saltzberg
"For every child — and every adult — who has ever looked at a mistake and wondered if it ruined everything."
A torn piece of paper becomes the mouth of an alligator. A spilled drop of paint becomes a frog. A crumpled ball becomes the fleece of a lamb. Page after page, Barney Saltzberg takes the small disasters of a child's art project and turns them into an invitation — what if the mistake isn't the end of the picture? What if it's the beginning of a better one?
This is less a story and more a shared activity, and that's exactly what makes it perfect for this age. Read it together, then go make your own beautiful oops — spill something, tear something, fold something — and see what your little one discovers underneath the mistake.
The thread: every act of creativity starts with the willingness to let a mistake become something new.
Young reader · Ages 12+
Steal Like an Artist
Austin Kleon
"Ten things nobody told you about being creative — written for anyone who's ever felt like they had nothing original to say."
Austin Kleon's central, liberating idea is that nothing is created from nothing. Every artist, writer, and maker is standing on the shoulders of everyone who inspired them — and the goal isn't to hide that, it's to embrace it.
What I love about this book for a teenager is the pressure it removes. You don't need an original idea. You need curiosity, a notebook, and the willingness to start before you feel ready. That's a permission most teenagers — most of us — desperately need to hear.
The thread: creativity isn't about having something no one's ever made before — it's about making something only you could make from what inspires you.
Adult · The anchor read
Big Magic
Elizabeth Gilbert
"A book about creative living, written by someone who has spent her whole life negotiating with fear."
Elizabeth Gilbert doesn't pretend creativity is easy or that fear goes away. Instead she makes a case that creativity and fear can simply ride in the same car — fear just doesn't get to drive. She writes about ideas as if they have a life of their own, circling the world looking for someone willing to bring them into being. If you don't answer the call, she says, the idea moves on to someone else.
I find that thought both terrifying and clarifying. How many ideas have I let pass by because I didn't think I was the right person, or it wasn't the right time? Big Magic is a gentle, insistent nudge to stop waiting for permission that was never going to come from outside yourself.
The thread: creative living isn't about being fearless — it's about bringing your fear along for the ride without letting it choose the direction.
Adult · The anchor read
Creative Confidence
Tom & David Kelley
"The book that reframes creativity as a skill, not a personality trait."
Tom and David Kelley spent their careers at IDEO and Stanford's “d.school” proving something most of us were taught to doubt: creativity isn't reserved for "creative types." It's a capacity every person has access to — it just gets buried under years of being told to color inside the lines, give the right answer, and avoid looking foolish.
Paired with Big Magic, this book creates a compelling conversation about creativity from two very different angles — one deeply personal and almost spiritual, one structural and research-backed. Together they'll leave you with both the courage and the practical permission to start treating your own creative instincts seriously.
The thread: creative confidence isn't something you're born with — it's something you build, one small act of courage at a time.
The fiction reader · Adult · Literary fiction
Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow
Gabrielle Zevin
"The novel that asks what we make, what it costs us, and whether the making was worth it anyway."
Sam and Sadie meet as children and spend the next thirty years building video games together — falling in and out of each other's lives, their creative partnership, and themselves. It's a love story, but not the kind you expect. It's really a story about what happens when two people pour everything they have into making something that didn't exist before — the obsession, the joy, the cost, the grief when it changes, and the stubborn, irrational compulsion to keep making anyway.
You don't need to know anything about video games to love this book. What you need is to have ever made something — anything — and wondered whether it was worth the risk of making it.
It was.
The thread: creativity is an act of love — and like all acts of love, it requires the courage to begin without knowing how it ends.
The reading ritual
How to read these together
Begin with Beautiful Oops! — but don't just read it, do it. Keep some scrap paper, paint, or anything messy nearby and let your little one make their own "oops" right alongside the book. Ask them afterward: what was your favorite mistake you turned into something? Then make your own, and show them.
Steal Like an Artist works beautifully as an independent read for a teenager — it's short, visual, and doesn't ask for much commitment. But it also opens a wonderful door for a parent and teen to talk about influence and originality together. Ask your teen: who are the people you'd want to "steal" from — and what is it about their work that draws you in?
For the adult reads, I'd suggest starting with Big Magic and letting it settle over the first half of the month. Then move into Creative Confidence in the second half, and notice how differently the practical, structural advice lands once you've spent time with Gilbert's more personal framing. One book gives you the courage. The other gives you the method.
Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow works beautifully alongside Big Magic and Creative Confidence — but it earns its own reading space too. I'd suggest giving it the last week of the month, once you've sat with Gilbert's courage and the Kelleys' framework. Let the novel be the place where everything you've read this month stops being a concept and becomes a feeling. If you find yourself putting it down just to sit with what you've read, that's exactly right. Let it do that.
The common thread this month isn't really about becoming an artist. It's about the creative problem-solving that happens at the kitchen table, on the run, in the way you've rebuilt a life or a brand or a relationship from something that didn't quite work the first time. By the end of July, if you've been paying attention, you might find yourself asking a different question — not am I creative, but what have I been waiting for permission to make?
Discussion prompts
One question for each reader in your life — or all four for yourself.
For your little one
In the book, a mistake — a tear, a spill, a smudge — becomes something wonderful with just a little imagination. Has something ever gone "wrong" while you were making something, and you turned it into something even better? What did you make?
For your teenager
Austin Kleon says every artist is influenced by the people they admire — and that's a good thing, not something to hide. Who is someone — an artist, a writer, a creator, anyone — whose work you really love? What is it about their work that makes you want to make something too?
For you
Both Elizabeth Gilbert and the Kelley brothers describe creativity as something available to everyone, not just "creative types." Where in your life have you held back from making something — a project, a hobby, a piece of writing, a dream — because you didn't think you were the right person for it? What would it take to start anyway?
For the fiction reader
Sam and Sadie spend thirty years making something together — and it costs them both more than they expected. What's something you've made, or tried to make, that required you to give a real part of yourself to it? Was it worth it?
A note on where to buy
Every book mentioned here links to Bookshop.org — buying through these links supports independent bookstores in your community, not a warehouse. Same books, same price, a better place for your money to land.
There's no right place to begin. Just the place you're drawn to today.
Start where you are.
Read what you can.
Reflect in your own way.
I'd love to know which of these you're reaching for first this month — and if Beautiful Oops! sends you down a path of glorious, messy art projects with your little ones, I want to see them. Leave a comment below, or share your own "beautiful oops" in the comments. This is exactly the kind of mess I want this book club to make.
Here's to creating together this month.
A deep breath in a beautiful life.
— Britt
We're halfway through July and something happened this week that I didn't expect to feel as significant as it did. A reflection on empathy, creative confidence, and what it means to offer a solution when you're not the obvious expert — plus this month's discussion prompts for every reader in your life.